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Sunday, 15 November 2015
Wednesday, 9 September 2015
Those troublesome scam emails, phone calls and letters!
The other morning I joined around seventy people for a
Torbay Business Forum breakfast at the Riviera Conference Centre. The guest
speaker was Kevin Foster MP and his topic was the first one-hundred days in the
House of Commons. As I am sure you are aware these are difficult times for a
politician and I found his grasp of core issues refreshing. I rather suspect
that he will keep the faith regardless of political pressure but of course only
time will tell.
Kevin Foster
As I say his theme was the first hundred days and I must
admit with a title like that I did look around for the executioners block and
axe! But this was not a scene from Hilary Mantel’s ‘Wolf Hall’ although he did
say that one his first day the new cohort were shown where to leave their swords!
What also interested me was the fact that the audience at the breakfast event did
not use this gathering as a platform for launching a series of prickly
questions. In point of fact there were very few questions and that did actually
make me raise an eyebrow.
For the past eighteen years the local MP was Adrian Sanders.
The period immediately after the May election will have been a curious road for
Adrian as he adjusted to a very different landscape. Before becoming an MP
Adrian spent twenty-one years working in the public and private sectors. That
is a considerable amount of knowledge and experience. You may be interested to
know that Adrian is still very much in business offering public relations,
government affairs and lobbying services (www.adriansanders.org).
He is very keen to help smaller organisational locally and his fee structure is
user friendly.
Adrian Sanders
I have a huge amount of respect for both Adrian and Kevin.
It is all too easy to look for the negative and indeed too often people seem to
gain enormous pleasure from criticising others. Kevin will certainly need
support from the community in the challenging days ahead and it is pleasing
that Adrian’s wealth of experience is still available.
One point made by Kevin Foster during his ‘first hundred
days’ talk was the nature of communication and how that has changed. He pointed
out that not so many years ago if you had something you wanted to tell your MP
then it meant picking up a pen and writing a letter. Of course you didn’t just write a letter you
then had to stuff it in an envelope, stick a stamp in the top right hand corner
and pop it in a letterbox.
These days that has all changed. Of course many people will
still write letters and to be quite honest I find that very exercise quite
cathartic. The advent of social media means that that an email can be dashed
off in seconds. There is also the facility for the use internet based sites to
simply write a quick note to an MP and press send! So easy to do and of course
too often the source emails that lack any thought.
I think that Kevin said he had something like two-hundred
emails immediately after winning the election. That comment made me shiver because
I suspect that quite important messages may have been lost in an ocean of
rhetoric. It is also true that too many email communications should really be
saved for a period of time and then read again before pressing send or indeed
deleting. That is certainly true when written in anger. As the blood pressure
rises we tend to lose the ability to reason.
One topic that might interest both of them, Kevin and
Adrian, is the rise in spam communications through the letterbox, email in box,
telephone calls and text messages. You may have read in the Herald Express
recently of a lady who lost thousands of pounds to a telephone scammer. These
nasty people are very clever but lack any integrity. We live in an age where
personal information is so easily available and it takes little effort to find
huge amounts of data about a person.
What really worries me is that whilst numerous people will
report scams many others will be too embarrassed to admit falling for these
malicious attacks. All this is not helped by isolation and we must look out for
the vulnerable. We need to put pressure on the decision makers in the hope that
there will be a more serious attempt to weed out these nasty people.
Keep the smile!
Wednesday, 2 September 2015
How ‘Socratic’ is the debate?
Doctor Bettany Hughes is a clever lady and so it was
interesting watching her ‘bump’ into the power of the Socratic process whilst
chatting to a Greek writer in an Athenian café. I don’t know whether you
watched her three television programmes on the great thinkers but if you did
then hopefully, like me, will have been pushed out of your comfort zone! That
Athenian café conversation may make you want to debate with friends over a cup
of coffee.
Doctor Hughes has tracked the lives of The Buddha, Socrates
and Confucius. All three lived so many years ago at about the same time. That
fact is curious in itself. The dominance of their thinking is still so very
powerful today. Two comments during the programme on Socrates made me think
quite deeply. The first was about the need never to be thoughtless and the
second was about how little we know!
Oh yes, there is also one more important point. Never drink
hemlock!
For most of us the name Socrates is associated with ancient
Greece and the birth of democracy. Churchill (the politician rather than the
nodding dog!) reportedly said that democracy is the worst form of government,
except for all those other forms that have been used from time to time.
I suspect that we all believe that we have some control over
the political landscape and not so long ago many of us joined the May 2015
queues at polling stations. Sadly quite a few of us didn’t and that has to be a
worry. Of course the fact that worries me doesn’t mean that it worries you!
My understanding of the democratic process is that we elect
fellow citizens to represent us in the various places of powers. They become
the decision makers on our behalf and hopefully those decisions represent the
will of the community that elected them. You might want to think about that.
I have little doubt that most of us are aware of the changes
happening daily on the English Riviera. Sometimes those changes raise an
eyebrow and from time to time may trigger an emotional tingle. That tingle may
be of pleasure because what is happening brings joy. Of course the tingle may
be a feeling of being somewhat uneasy and less than happy.
Paignton’s Matthew Clark wrote about the Torbay Retail and
Tourism Business Improvement District in last week’s Herald Express and
worried, it seemed to me, about the democratic process. Do you have a business related to tourism or
retail in Torbay? If you do then how much do you know about it (the BID) and
what do your local elected councillors think about it? How ‘Socratic’ is the
debate?
Coincidentally I bumped into another local councillor
unexpectedly the other evening. My family had given me a voucher for an evening
meal at the Harbour Kitchen and so I hopped on a bus with my wife for the short
trip to Torquay’s busy harbour. I love the upstairs front seat because the
views across Torbay can be stunning. Also sitting on a front seat was former
mayor and now local councillor Nick Bye. Nick is a clever man with a brilliant
sense of humour and hopefully he enjoyed the short journey as much as we did.
His update on what is happening politically gave me hope since there appears at
last to be a little unity.
The fact that Nick Bye was on a local bus was for me
significant because you may remember me waxing lyrical recently about Kevin
Foster MP also using local busses. I see the local bus service as the life
blood of a community and it is a worry that so many services seem to be
disappearing. Sadly those that suffer when that happens tend to be people who
can become too easily isolated. That is something perhaps to debate with your
local councillor.
Whilst debating issues with your elected representatives you
might also ask what is happening to Oldway Mansion. Sadly it seems to me to be
a little like my own house in that it is deteriorating without the money to
support the upkeep! We were promised a bright new future for it a few years ago
but little seems to be happening. The gardens however have been tended and look
beautiful including this iconic palm (pictured)
which will bring a smile to our elected mayor Gordon Oliver’s face.
Keep the smile!
from my column in the Herald Express 1st September
An Endless Green Tapestry That Catches The Eye
Buses, boats and leafy pathways somehow for me capture
the essence of South Devon. Even though the local area seems to be a sprawling
urban landscape it is the almost endless green tapestry that catches the eye when
viewed from the sea.
A week or so ago I hopped on a Western Lady ferry for the
return trip from Torquay to Brixham and back. The day was sunny and the boat
crowded. It is the first time in a long while that I have had the opportunity
to look at Torbay in a very different way.
It was interesting to compare the cost of the ferry trip
and then a bus journey. The return trip on the Western Lady was only £3 which
seemed far too cheap. The bus fare from Torquay’s Pavilion to Manor Corner in
Preston was £2.40. The new high speed ferry has a £6 return fare which also
seems very good value for a fast trip. Fine weather does make people want to
play on boats but when waves are rough and the rain falls numbers inevitably
drop.
I did have a chat with the lady staffing the Torquay
kiosk for the Western Lady who told me that this month had been busy and the
boat I boarded was full in both directions. At £3 return it is ridiculously
cheap given that it’s a lovely way to travel across the bay offering stunning
views of the South Devon Coast. Almost a mini cruise!
As we chugged into Brixham the new high speed ferry
service was heading out. Sadly the new ‘super-duper’ high speed craft has yet
to reach Torbay and for the while they are using the Silver Sea charter boat.
This Paignton based twelve seater boat is a very fast way to skip across Torbay.
So many cities around the world now use water transport
to avoid traffic congestion and I was very excited when it was announced that a
new high speed craft would offering a brilliant commuting route between Brixham
and Torquay. The operators say on their website that “Brixham Express Ltd operate an all year ferry service between Brixham
and Torquay. The custom built twin screw catamaran is suited to the beam seas
of Torbay and we hope to deliver a service that can weather the east winds and
swell. Travelling to work by sea, across beautiful Torbay, is a new innovative
way to both start and finish your work day. Stagecoach 33 will link with the
ferry at Beacon Quay, Torquay to deliver commuters to their places of work.”
As yet this innovative craft has yet to appear and Mary
O’Discoll from Brixham Express tells me that she is pulling out her hair out in
frustration! Bureaucracy and administrative hiccups seem to be slowing the
process. Hopefully within the next month this exciting new boat will reach
Torbay. It must be very annoying for Mary and her people that they will not
have the benefit of a busy summer season. Mary says that she simply keeps
smiling! I like that of course.
I have a certain empathy with them because years ago we
had a running battle with Torbay Council in attempting to operate a commercial
aqua-sausage business off Paignton beach. At one point the whole elected
council was at a standstill debating the future of an inflatable toy on a sandy
South Devon beach. Hmm. The main concern apparently was the number of
objections received. This was before the Freedom of Information Act and getting
detail as to who the complainants were was almost impossible. We did find out eventually
after ‘ambushing’ a councillor and it seems that it was a case of numerous
objections from one person!
The latter part of the week was dimpsy and so my woodland
walk to Occombe Farm was along dampened leafy pathways. My two year old
grand-daughter needed a damp weather activity and Occombe offers endless fun in
the converted barns and hard standing outside the popular café. Watching the
young ones racing toy tractors around the barns and yard is it seems to me a
quintessentially Devonian activity! Dimpsy actually means getting dark or
twilight but I’ve always used it to describe those soft soggy days when the
mist rolls in from the sea. By the way I have to say that Occombe’s home made
beef burger is a sensation and very welcome by this hungry grand-dad!
Keep the smile.
From my column in the Herald Express on the 26th August
Saturday, 15 August 2015
Join in the fun and tingle too!
I remember years ago sprinting along the harbour wall on
the east quay of Paignton Harbour and leaping out into the rough easterly sea. Sailing
through the air and sinking deep beneath the waves was so exhilarating! At that
time there used to be a ladder at the end of the quay and we would wait for the
next big swell and excitedly clamber back up onto the harbour. It was high
summer of course and the water was almost warm.
Those years ago Paignton’s lovely little harbour seemed
to tingle in the summer as hundreds of tourists wandered happily around the
quaysides. We used to run a windsurfing school from here and provided endless
entertainment for tourists as luckless aspirant windsurfers bobbed on the board
briefly before tipping headlong into the ocean.
At that time Paignton Sailing Club had a very active
windsurfing section and on Thursday evenings over fifty windsurfers would race
around buoys off the harbour. During Regatta Week thousands of people would
watch windsurfers sail along the edge of the beach in fancy dress! Where else
would you see a giant carrot sailing a windsurfers being chased by an
overstuffed rabbit complete with large floppy ears?
Over recent years the harbour rather lost much of the
once famous ‘mojo’ as it adjusted to changing social trends and the economic roller-coaster that turned into a white knuckle ride for many. Various ‘plans’
offered all sorts of possibilities for the harbour estate. An eclectic mix
included the Mayor’s Vision, a Port Master Plan, various town plans and more
latterly the Torbay Retail / Tourism BID. The Harbour also seemed to have lost
direction as the local council attempted to balance recreational and business
development.
BUT having said all that next Saturday something quite
special is happening on Paignton’s picturesque harbour. A small group of dedicated
harbour people have been planning the first ever HARBOUR FESTIVAL DAY! Much of
this is due to the endless enthusiasm of Paignton’s new harbourmaster Simon
Pinder. Simon is a sailor with many years’ experience and natural enthusiasm
for making things happen. He has also managed to unite the community and must
be congratulated for that.
You can learn how to splice rope with
our local expert Andy Ricks. He will be with Mike Cornish the local supplier of commercial fishing and yachting supplies demonstrating how modern pots are made. Come and see Dave French construct a traditional Withy
Pot from scratch. The pot will be auctioned later with proceeds going to the
Fishermen's Mission. Bidding will be brisk for what will be a beautifully
crafted potential Christmas present!
The Oarsome Buoys Shaun Pedley and Ryan
Barter will be on hand to tell you about rowing across the Atlantic. Their boat
will be on the harbour for the day and so you can actually touch the craft and
feels its spirit. In December they will be competing in the Talisker Whisky
Atlantic Challenge rowing from La Gomera to Antigua! That is a tough challenge
and makes me shiver just thinking about it! Do have a look at their website and
the ‘countdown clock’ telling you how long there is left before the start of the
race.(http://www.weregoingrowing.co.uk/)
There will be live music from The Back
Beach Boyz and Fabulous 59 Ford, wonderful ‘Billet Doux – Lino Prints’ by local
artist Emma Higgins, a traditional Punch and Judy show and so much more! This
has to be one of the best events of the summer locally and I am really looking
forward to spending the day there.
This is Regatta Week in Paignton and that brings
the whole town to life. It is so easy to bang on about all the things that appear
not to work and for reasons I still don’t understand people seem to wallow too
often in self-imposed negativity. With so much good stuff happening locally
South Devon really should be tingling so why not join in the fun and tingle
too! You know it makes sense.
I’m almost tempted to have another crack at
leaping off the harbour wall when the tide is high and the east wind tumbles
the sea toward the beach.
Keep the smile.
Words from my column in the Herald Express 12th August 2015
Saturday, 25 July 2015
To be at the mercy of the machine!
I seem to
spend a huge amount of time walking the local roads these days. That is partly
due to the curious state of being semi-retired and partly due to a conscious
decision to be a pedestrian rather than a motorist.
In the past
time seemed critical and the need to get between two points quickly made a
vehicle essential. Ditching the car and keeping to the pavement for local trips
hasn’t really taken that much longer because previously unknown shortcuts provide
new horizons. I have discovered parts of Torbay that I simply didn’t know
existed: fascinating stuff!
This new
lifestyle choice partly explains why the other morning I found myself walking
down a steep hill into Paignton. As I walked three young men emerged from a
house ahead of me. They were in their late teens and probably students. As they
walked I found myself drifting back down ‘memory lane’ to another world. That
slip was partly due to the sound of church bells from the beautiful Paignton
Parish Church in the distance.
They walked
in single file with heads slightly bowed and hands clasped in front of them.
Through half closed eyes they looked like Benedictine monks answering the call
to communion! I’m sure you can recall those images of holy men in prayer walking
silently in single file.
My walking
speed was a little faster than the silent trio and I soon passed them. Glancing
sideways I could see that all three were thumbing smart phones or mobile
devices! It would have been rude to stare at the screens but from the speed of
thumb movement I suspect that they were texting. Texting for those that don’t
know is a method of chatting with friends in silence via a mobile device!
Increasingly
I find this obsession with mobile devices quite fascinating. As I walk my daily
Torbay pilgrimages I am increasingly aware of the number of people using smart
phones, tablets and other ‘toys’ as they travel. Sadly as a pedestrian I am
also increasingly aware of the quite large number of people texting whilst
driving. That is of course illegal but is also incredibly stupid.
Little groups
of people seem not to notice each other as they sip hot drinks outside coffee
shops whilst playing with smart phones. The apparent silence masks the huge
amount of cyberspace chatter as they connect to other worlds. I say other
worlds but that is perhaps a truth since whilst sipping a cappuccino in Brixham
you can be having a real time conversation with a friend on the beach in Bali!
I make no
judgement about this modern phenomenon but simply want to raise awareness.
Fiction writers, including the enigmatic Philip Pullman, have allowed
characters to move from one world to another. In point of fact Philip Pullman,
in the Dark Materials trilogy, talks of the ‘Subtle Knife’ that actually cuts a
slit in the fabric of time allowing movement between worlds or realities!
My silent
trio walking down that steep hill into Paignton the other morning had in many
ways done exactly that. They were walking in one reality and yet living in
another ‘virtual’ reality. It made me think of those monks over the centuries
doing quite something similar as they walked in silent prayer. Their belief had
them communicating with a divine being using prayer. Hmm.
If you have
the time over the next few weeks do take a look at your fellow citizens as they
navigate the day. You might become a little more aware of the large number
swapping one reality for another by using mobile devices. Check out the number
of drivers doing exactly that! That will send a shiver down your spine since as
a pedestrian you are at the mercy of the machine. It is also quite shocking
when you realise that the awareness of that immediate community in which you
exist doesn’t appear on their landscape at all!
Keep the
smile.
From my column published in the Herald Express 22nd July 2015
From my column published in the Herald Express 22nd July 2015
Thursday, 18 June 2015
Black Pudding and Bacon Rolls - or a cup of tea at St Andrew's in Sands Road!!
Saint Andrew's Church in Sands Road - just down the road from Paignton's historic harbour!
I’ve always been a supporter of business networking because
it brings like-minded entrepreneurs and support professionals together. We all
lead busy lives these days and so many networking occasions tend to happen in
the morning. Recently I have started to worry about the health of those
networking trailblazers because of the proliferation of business networking
breakfasts!
Last week, for example, I was aware of at least three gatherings.
Two of those provided a large cooked breakfast complete with black pudding and
the third offered endless bacon rolls. Perhaps it is time to provide a
cholesterol test as part of the offering! So, having said all that, I still
like the idea of these gatherings because they do allow an easy exchange of
news and knowledge.
Most also have a theme speaker who will offer insights that
quite often become a catalyst for innovation. Let me just expand upon that a
little. I have always been an enthusiastic gatherer of knowledge and over the
years one thing has become very clear. That is the fact that I know so very
little! It also seems to me that each day I become aware that I seem to know
less and less.
There is an old saying that goes something like it’s not
what you know but who you know. Sadly that has too often been used to explain
why someone has inexplicably got a job or position that might have been best
awarded to another less well connected person. But it is more than that. It
seems to me that it isn’t necessarily what you know or who you know but more a
case of what you know about them. That can be a very positive scenario because
it encourages a social connectivity that can work for the greater good.
I happened to bump into a community engagement worker the
other day and floated the idea of community networking events. Of course we
already have community partnerships, focus groups and numerous other social
engagement platforms but it seems to me that there is still something missing.
We’ve stripped out
so many community hotspots in recent times. I have in mind the popular visits
to the local Post Office, the once crowded churches, numerous public houses et
cetera and planted the idea that we now engage via the Internet whilst drifting
through cyberspace! That paradigm change, if that is what it is, worries me.
So where will we
find community hotspots where easy social networking can happen? I suppose your
first question might be seeking a meaningful definition of community! One
starting point could be the location of local parish churches because they
tended to be slap bang in the middle of traditional communities. Many of these
older buildings seem to be little used or indeed not used at all. Of course the
immediate reaction of many these days is that ‘They don’t do God!’ Yet one of
the core values underpinning religious thought is the business of loving thy
neighbour and perhaps by using these older spacious buildings we might start
doing exactly that.
Oddly enough this
community engagement or neighbourhood networking is actually happening locally.
The other day I dropped in at Saint Andrew’s Church in Paignton to visit the
Craft Works. St. Andrew’s is not far from Paignton’s picturesque harbour and is
a lovely old red sandstone building. Traditional services still happen in the
church on Sunday and Wednesday but on the other days a wide range of community
based workshops meet. Have a look at what they do by dropping in for a cup of
tea!
Kick-starting community action usually requires external
funding and these days that can be hard going. Many of the funding ‘pots’ have
become much smaller and are being sought by increasing numbers. A bit of a ‘Catch 22’ situation because if
you make something happen you didn’t need the funding and yet too often things
don’t happen because they lack funding! Hmm: a paradox perhaps.
Keep the smile.
Tuesday, 16 June 2015
If you go down to the sea today!
Surprisingly many people don’t know that Paignton has a
harbour! Not only has Paignton got a harbour but that harbour is one of the
prettiest in the area. The harbour walls are made from old red sandstone and
seem to glow in the late afternoon summer sunshine.
In an attempt to
share the wonder of this quaint little harbour the local community have decided
to hold a community day on August 15th! That day will be jam-packed
with so many yummy things to do including feasting on freshly cooked seafood.
Part of the fun will be a traditional Punch and Judy show that will both
fascinate and entertain.
But why wait until then do discover the magic of Paignton’s
picturesque harbour? Walk the coastal path for a while and pause for coffee or
freshly cooked tapas whilst watching colourful boats bob on the rising tide.
Experience the atmospheric energy that fills the air as you tuck into a
delicious evening meal overlooking Tor Bay.
This wonderful harbour is ageless and that is demonstrated
by the wide range of activities that weave a rich tapestry. You will find rowing,
sailing, diving, fishing and so much more. Watch the ski boats leave the
harbour heading for the open sea and ferries that allow passengers to see South
Devon in a very different way.
Why not sit in the summer sun whilst enjoying a picnic on
Fairy Cove? Hear the sound of seabirds as you doze for a while and smile. The spirit of Paignton’s hidden gem will wrap
itself around you and your life will be the better for it.
Keep the smile.
Friday, 10 April 2015
When the bough breaks…..
All that is left of the police station in Paignton!
Sometimes it
all too easy not to notice the metaphorical cracks creeping across the surface
of our society. That lack of notice is usually a consequence of minimal impact
upon the daily routine of our own lives. I guess that it is a little like
toothache. Toothache is very much a personal thing which soon dominates the
day. Once the pain is past the event is quickly forgotten.
I use that as
an example because whilst we may have empathy with others suffering in some way
we don’t actually feel the pain. As we rocket toward May 2015 the political
rhetoric is hotting up. Meanwhile the austerity measures in place continue to
impact and we must all be aware that increasingly the pressure in places is
reaching breaking point.
Let me give
you an example. I don’t know whether you have been aware of the changing police
landscape lately but a few things have made me want to comment. We hear about
the cuts to policing locally but perhaps fail to take on the potential dangers
lurking as a consequence. Some years ago I found a wallet on the pavement with
a considerable amount of money in it but no identification. I took the wallet
to the local police station and it was eventually reunited with its owner.
If that
happened today I would need to take it to my local police enquiry office. A
short while ago that would have been the large building in the middle of
Paignton. That very large building is now a pile of rubble in Southfield Road.
(see picture). I would therefore need
to hop on a bus and drop it off in at Torquay Police Station. Does that matter?
Well I think it does.
Whilst we see
police cars whizzing around what we might also notice is fewer police officers
walking the beat. I was chatting to a friend the other day when he suddenly
stopped and exclaimed “Gosh you don’t see that very often these days!” I look
around but didn’t immediately see what had caught his attention. “Look, over
there!” he said “Two police officers walking the beat!”
Of course
Devon and Cornwall Constabulary do provide a very nice website and if you have
easy access to a computer of mobile device it is possible to access all sorts
of information, but for me that doesn’t replace the comfort of being able to
walk into the local police station. As I say, does that matter? Well I happen
to think that it does.
As the
financial noose tightens many of the things that actually keep a community
together seem to be being eroded and it isn’t until something happens to you or
those that you love that the impact is felt. Policing is one aspect of course
and as the numbers of beat police officers fall it only has to be a matter of
time before the ‘bough breaks’. My worry is that in the words of that little
nursery rhyme ‘…down will come cradle, baby and all!’
I happened to
be at a business breakfast event the other morning with our mayor as the guest
speaker. He spoke at length about many of the good things happening locally and
about the challenges facing our community. There are indeed many good things
happening and we mustn’t lose sight of that. We also see many of the challenges
as being about reduced funding and that is a truth. At that breakfast meeting
in Torquay’s lovely Grand Hotel I made the point that it isn’t simply about the
money but HOW that money is spent.
My observation was about a photograph a
little while ago with two council officers in front of the now beleaguered
Parkfield Youth Centre. At the time we were losing numerous youth worker posts
and it made me raise an eyebrow that the combined salary of those two senior officers
was over £250,000. In all probability the two well-paid officers were worth
every penny but it does offer an interesting perspective I think.
As aspirant
national and local politicians seek your vote it might be a good time to really
think about what sort of community we really want and make that very clear to
them.
Keep the
smile!
From my column in the Herald Express 8th April 2015
Thursday, 5 February 2015
Giving people a reason to smile is simply wonderful.
My column in the Herald Express 4th February 2015
The Monastery Berry
Drive Paignton
As a bright-eyed student, so many years ago, I thought
that I might have a vocation for the Catholic priesthood. By the time I had
escaped from college it was clear that I didn’t have a vocation and so I lurked
quite happily in the secular world. People who know me then asked why I didn’t
test my vocation and all I can say is that I found it hard. However as part of
my course I spent a month or so teaching at Saint Cuthbert Mayne School Torquay
and whilst there bumped into a newly ordained priest from the Marist House of
Studies that was then housed in Monastery Road Paignton. As a consequence of
that meeting and my possible vocation I spent a little time visiting what we
now refer to locally as the Old Monastery. At that time it was the home of some
very clever academic priests and a simply stunning library.
The Marist priests and nuns had a long association with
Paignton with many local ladies educated at the Marist Convent School Paignton
in the building that is now occupied by Tower House School. Indeed until twenty
or so years ago Marist nuns were still providing teaching staff at the Sacred
Heart School in Paignton under the leadership of Sister Monica O’Brien.
A few weeks ago the nuns running Stoodley Knowle School
announced that it will shortly close ending over eighty years of teaching in
sixty-five acres of picturesque woodland overlooking Anstey’s Cove. Times
change and so much of what we have always taken for granted quietly slips into
history as fewer people seek the celibate life within the religious world.
Recently I've become engaged with a number of people who
have been looking at old church buildings and how they might be used for the
good of the community. One leader in this field is Andrew Richardson of W4G
(Working for Good Communities (http://www.w4gcic.net/ )).
He has been actively looking at the development of socially inclusive
entrepreneurial system that is ethically based within unused or under used church
buildings. These buildings tend to be in the middle of communities that have
often been battered by the economic downturn and therefore offer an excellent
hub for community re-engagement.
The other day I happened to be walking around the gardens
at Oldway Mansion and looked over the valley toward Winner Hill. I noticed the
statue above the Old Monastery sparkling in the afternoon sunshine. It seemed
to call me and so I nipped over for a long overdue visit.
The chapel at the old Marist House of Studies is now the
home of Anode (http://www.anodecharity.org.uk). I
had recently been in contact with Anode’s founder Nigel Williams and had been
captivated by their mission. This is what they say about themselves.
“Anode is a Charity that provides a holistic service to
help an individual through challenging times by engaging with one or more of
our programmes. We look to build a foundation that encourages self-belief,
independence and responsibility. Our Motto is ‘Changing
Lives, Giving a Voice & Fighting Poverty’ and we are
passionate about helping out where needed. We recognise that each
individual is unique and we are committed to helping people connect with HOPE!”
A member of the Anode community gave me a quick tour of
the chapel building showing me the food bank store, the meeting rooms, kitchen
and counselling area. The last time I had been in the lovely chapel building
was back in 1970 and at the time was hugely warmed by the spiritual energy of
the chapel which was at that time a house of prayer. I have to say that what
Anode is about still captures that magical spirit but in a very different way.
We live in troubled times and those on the margins of our
society seem to be being pushed over the edge on a daily basis. The crushing
deprivation that drains hope from so many has to be stopped and to do that it
needs all of us to pay careful attention. Look out for those around you who
might be in danger.
Organisations like Anode, W4G and others help to bring
hope. Building communities by developing employable skills from within seems to
me a way to create a more hopeful future. The Anode Smile Maker programme is
such a platform and giving people a reason to smile is simply wonderful.
Keep the smile.
Helping homeless would be a start
My column in the Herald Express 22nd January 2015
Kate Humble is an interesting girl! Recently I watched her
abseiling down the inside of an active volcano toward the bubbling molten lava
lake on the island of Tanna in the southern Pacific. That is a very scary thing
to do.
Two things struck me about this dramatic event that had been
brilliantly filmed by the BBC. The first was Kate’s obvious anxiety. Someone
told me years ago that if we weren’t living on the edge then we were taking up
too much space. I’m not sure about that but Kate was certainly on the edge and
you could almost taste the fear in her voice as she slid down a rope to a
narrow ledge above the hostile lava lake. That has to be one of the scariest
places in the world.
The second thing that struck me was the molten lava lake
itself. How easily do we forget that this world of ours is a ball of fire
covered with a thin crust? Occasionally we get a glimpse of that destructive
power when volcanoes suddenly spew molten material high into the sky. Do you
remember back in 2011 when aircraft were grounded as a dust cloud drifted
across Europe after the eruption of an Icelandic volcano? Kate’s slide toward
that molten lava lake is striking evidence of how delicate it all is. That
boiling cauldron spews noxious gas high into the atmosphere on a daily basis.
Whether you are a creationist or an evolutionist you have to
be very aware of how fragile our existence is. Whilst we worry about daily
things that trouble us it is good to be grateful for whatever we have and to
hang on to this life with both hands.
It occurred to me that our mayor might well be hanging on to
things with both hands just now when I listened to him speak at the Torbay
Business Forum breakfast a few days ago.
The attentive business community listened to him talk about the good
things that have happened in Torbay whist he has had the reigns. Of course many
good things have happened and we must celebrate that. At the same time there
have been draconian cuts in public spending. So many services have been forced
to the very edge financially and others simply sank without trace.
So many of those cuts hit people with the least power first
and it seems to me that the gap between those that have and those that have not
is getting horribly wider by the day. Many families face increasing hardship as
things like energy prices climb ever higher.
The increase in the number of food banks must have many people
scratching their heads. It worries me and I hope that it worries you too.
One of the outcomes from this troubled time is the increase
in homelessness. As I walked the icy roads just before six this morning with my
dog I thought how hard the night will have been for those sleeping rough. That
penetrating cold made me shiver and be thankful that I wasn’t clutching a damp
blanket under a bush.
Later in the morning I joined a group of people attending a
training session at Saint Paul’s church in Paignton. We had gathered to listen
to Rachel Makin from Housing Justice speak about running night shelters. You
may like to know that under the direction of THE HAVEN (http://www.haven-torbay.org.uk )
seven church halls will become overnight shelters for the homeless during
February.
Being lonely and homeless has to be a scary place and whilst
I might have been impressed with Kate Humble’s bravery it seems to me that
members of our community have to face those demons of fear on a nightly basis.
Homelessness, in our fragile world, is something we must
face and act upon. Our prime minister says that we are all in this together but
sadly the evidence seems not to support that. Rachel Makin made an interesting
point when she said that with overseas aid we attempt to offer people access to
water and sanitation. That, she says, is something that our homeless often cannot
access.
As a community we need to pull together in the hope of
building a future that includes everyone. What we do should be for the good of
all and hopefully offering hospitality to the homeless is a start. I will be
staffing one of the night shelters during February and am a little worried
about to be quite honest. One thing I will do is what I tell others to do and
that is to keep the smile, hard though that might be. Please remember that when
it comes to being homeless; there but for the grace of your god go you.
Keep the smile!
The Bonus Culture Trundles On...
My column in the Herald Express 9th January 2015
Sunrise over Singer Court
Recent research reveals that if you worked at the sharp end of Goldman
Sachs in 2013 that the annual monster bonus event was a time of celebration!
Those intrepid risk takers each received £2,570,000 bonuses on average.
Meanwhile the poor old risk takers and senior staff at RBS over the same period
only received a tasty £600,000 on average. Not a bad income boost when all is
said and done.
I don’t know whether you noticed that news sound bite over the Christmas
period and if you did what was your reaction? Probably, like most of us, you
simply shrugged your shoulders. The problem is, or so it seems to me, that so much
sensational news is too often received with a shrug of the shoulders. Why is
that? It is quite likely because so much of what is happening to us seems to be
outside of our control. If that is the case then perhaps the occasional raising
of an eyebrow is all that we can hope for.
These monster bonus decisions tend to be decided by the financial
gatekeepers and despite the turmoil in the money markets the bonus culture trundles
on. Of course it isn’t only the money men that expect a bonus for doing what they
are paid to do efficiently. Many of the higher echelons of the Civil Service,
NHS and other similar bodies also anticipate huge annual bonuses. Many senior
posts have a large cosy bonus as part of the contract of employment but at
least one, Network Rail’s Mark Carne, may not take his this year after the
Christmas rail chaos. Hmm. We’ll see.
You might ask why I use the word gatekeeper in this context. An
accountant once told me that he who controls the quill controls the money.
Those with the power have a habit of protecting themselves and the people
immediately around them. They toast the system with the words “Here’s to us and
those like us” which immediately excludes those not part of this exclusive
world. That is why the word gatekeeper offers a glimpse of why little is likely
to change. If you guard the gate then you decide who comes in and who stays
out.
If we simply accept that the self-appointed gatekeepers decide to reward
each other little will ever change. Part of our reluctance to change is I
suspect the worry that rejection may threaten our own socio-economic stability.
You will be aware of the political rhetoric surrounding the payment of huge
bonuses but since so many of our political elite benefit from the system there
isn’t, despite the rhetoric, really that much appetite for change.
2015 is election year and so if you have an appetite for change then
this might be your chance to come up for air. Once again you might find
yourself facing the gatekeeper mentality and so take a good look at the names
on the ballot paper. Comments like “They’re all the same” may have some
validity but doesn’t really help. This is the time to engage with the people
making the decisions and has to be an excellent reason for hopping down from
the fence!
Talking about fences, I have to say how impressed I am with the new
pathway through what is left of Oldway Mansion’s Fernacombe Wood. The new huge
apartment block called Singer Court (see picture) is now towering above that
part of Paignton and a little woodland walk has been constructed outside the
newly fenced grounds. I recommend this short walk as a way of accessing the
Oldway Mansion gardens that are still being beautifully maintained by Torbay
Council. I was however a little curious about the ‘No Horse Riding’ sign since
it a long time since I have seen any horses trotting down the busy Paignton to
Torquay road!
Thinking about local developments in general I have to say how impressed
I was the other day when I made my first visit to Living Coasts in Torquay.
It’s been on my list of things to do for quite a while and so during the
Christmas holiday I made the effort. It really is an interesting place and the
knowledgeable staff made sure that visitors had every opportunity to learn. I
timed my visit to include lunch at their terrace café overlooking the whole of
Torbay and found the whole experience quite atmospheric. Recommended!
That little jaunt has prompted me to produce a list of other South Devon
places of interest for 2015 visits including Torre Abbey, Torquay Museum,
Kent’s Cavern, Bygones and the Model Village in St Marychurch, Coleton Fishacre
and Brixham Heritage Museum. I plan to add steam trains and river trips to my
rapidly expanding list. We live in a stunning part of the world and that has to
be something for us all to celebrate.
Keep the smile!
Platform For A New Energy.
My column in the Herald Express 23rd December 2014
I’ve not looked yet but I rather suspect that the film Love
Actually will pop up at least once over the Christmas period. Love Actually and
another Richard Curtis film, Notting Hill, always make me smile. Both have quite
serious themes but also have a lightness that lifts my battered spirit. What
really does it for me is the last scene in Love Actually that ends with a huge
storyboard of people being united at an airport because it seems to capture the
essence of Christmas; that wonderful joy of reunited friends and family coming
home for Christmas.
I love Christmas and always have. That statement may be
slightly overegging the truth because sometimes things can become a little
bumpy as the reality of life too often makes us less than happy. Christmas Day for
me has always started with the first church service which I suppose is the
nature of the day. It is an acknowledgement of the Christmas message for the
Christian Faith, which is the birth of Jesus. But the winter celebration itself
of course predates Christianity and emphasises the long dark night coupled with
very short cold days. A time when folk gathered in the icy semidarkness around
a fire as the night world outside shivered.
There was a time when that first Christmas Day service was a
collective family event shared with the community. In these unusual and too
often confusing times the need for family and community is huge. Christmas
traditionally is a time for heading home, for sharing, for caring and perhaps
capturing a little of the seasonal magic. Sadly for too many these days,
Christmas will not be a time for family or friends. For those struggling to put
food on the table or indeed to find food at all the wall to wall commercial
invitations to feast will simply bring pain. Too often that pain will also be a
place of intense loneliness. In the helter-skelter run up to Christmas Day it
is important to remember that we are a community which is hopefully
inclusive.
Keeping all that in mind I do love the idea of a friendly
Santa Claus travelling the world bringing a sparkle into lives and occasionally
granting special needs rather than simply satisfying superficial wants.
This Christmas I will look to the heavens in the hope of
catching sight of that famous speeding sled pulled by celestial reindeer high
above Torbay. During the past year I have found myself wishing for a few
special Torbay ‘presents’ and perhaps this Christmas some of Santa’s sparkling
fairy dust will fall from the sleigh like golden snow settling on those dreams.
A light covering of Santa’s golden fairy dust on Oldway
Mansion would be wonderful. Seeing that now exhausted building suddenly spring
into life as bright lights shine from the windows, excited people walk the
beautiful halls and atmospheric gardens, newlyweds showering rose petals on the
terrace and a community energised by the reawakening. To bring that iconic
building back to life will send a tingle through the whole of Torbay.
That magical dust might also fall lightly on the Parkfield Youth
Centre where beleaguered youth workers suddenly find that their prayers have
been answered as endless streams of young people ride the BMX track, clamber up
the stunning climbing wall, skate endlessly on the ramps, swing from the trees,
play games in the sports hall, make music in the garden and bring a smile to
the most battered faces. This wonderful £4.8 million pound facility has lost
its way and seems in the words of a young local accountant “To be a waste of a
fab opportunity” as the consequence of funding cuts cast a sad shadow over the
estate. Will Santa listen?
Hopefully a few flakes from that golden shower might flutter
over Torquay Pavilion and Cary Green bringing hope for an amicable future that
will capture the magic of the past in a union with a vibrant future. Perhaps
part of a new harmony will be a change from the collective mayhem of the
drunken night-time madness in the harbour area into a place that generates a
new energy of hope.
But most of all I pray that the energy of Christmas will
bring joy to the whole community and lift the spirit of us all. In my last
article I wrote about developing a ‘White Monday’ for the good of all rather
than the demonic ‘Black Friday’ evidenced by greedy grabbing. Perhaps Christmas
can be a platform for a new energy working for the good of the community as we
rocket toward a more meaningful future!
Keep the smile.
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