A couple of things happened today that made me raise an
eyebrow. It seemed to me that they were
connected and I therefore came to a conclusion. Later in the day I found that
there was absolutely no significance in the coincidence. Too often, or so it
seems to me, we attempt to look for significance in random coincidence with
curious outcomes! In our sound-bite world this seems to be becoming a regular
occurrence. The worry is that things are then said in error which can be hugely
damaging.
As we rocket toward 2015 the war of words has already
started as our political leaders attempt to score points over those opposing
them. We all tend to only loosely listen to what is being said which inevitably
links coincidental events to which we attach unwarranted significance. In a
world crowded with social media it is so easy to hear bits of a conversation
rather than the whole thing and judgements are then made without the luxury of
firm knowledge. That judgement can launch damaging comment and once the words
are out there attempting to pull them back is almost impossible!
All I am saying really is that once the political rhetoric
heats up we must listen with care and keep the spiteful comments at arm’s
length. To be quite honest if you don’t have something nice to say about
someone then being quiet is probably the best option. If you do have a
criticism to make then at least ensure that it is understood and balanced.
I don’t know whether you have stumbled across J K Rowling’s
new book ‘A Casual Vacancy’ which is very different from the often dark Harry
Potter stories. It was for me a fascinating read because it captured the
essence of a community and demonstrated how words can skew a point of view. It
doesn’t take much for negative comment to grow into something quite harmful. As
the politicians both local and national seek election those social divisions
can become very complicated with quite often unintended consequences.
One activity that I have always felt an excellent platform
for social cohesion is the Duke of Edinburgh’s Award and recently the 500th
Gold presentation ceremony took place in London. There is an increasing need, in my opinion,
to encourage young people not in full time education to use the DofE to develop
skills to provide a life platform that will both build their skill portfolio
and also help bind a community together. Please ask your local councillors what
they are doing to support the Duke of Edinburgh’s Award amongst those not in
full time education or part of a youth organisation.
Talking of community cohesion I was really pleased to see so
many people pitch up to the Oldway Mansion open afternoon the other Saturday.
The tour of this crumbling building was actually quite exciting because we got
to see parts that have never been open to the public. I gather from the
developer that nothing much is going to happen for at least a year and that
given the poor state of the fabric the whole project is going to be very
challenging. Torbay Council, in these cash strapped times, must be really pleased
that this money bucket is off their hands. At least I think that it is off
their hands.
The weather this summer has been fantastic and the sunshine
continued into September. That warm weather was good news for one young couple
who decided to hold their wedding reception at the Red Rocks Beach Café on
Goodrington seafront. Always a worry when you are that close to the water because
if the wind comes blasting in from the sea accompanied by lashing icy rain then
the whole event can become a washout. But their evening went well and the Red
Rocks Beach Café throbbed with an eight-piece band hammering out toe tapping
music.
It is very easy to say negative things about our tourism
offering and yet there really is so much to do. For anyone wandering along Goodrington
seafront and Young’s Park that evening it must have seemed quite atmospheric. I
loved it and can still feel the tingle today.
In a little while the clocks change and the sun continues to
head south. Thankfully this year we have all be buoyed by some lovely weather
which has made the English Riviera sparkle. The thing is that the sunshine days
kind of seep deeply into the spirit and allow you to almost radiate through the
short winter days.
I guess that is one way to keep the smile!